"But, you haven't even heard my music!?" I countered. She seemed startled. I'm sure she does not get rejected often. "It's just that you have good energy." Energy schmenergy - she *knew* I had industry contacts! Maybe she did sus me out correctly because we definitely have had an unspoken rapport ever since (despite my suspicion) - almost mind-reading. But I don't think the intial rejection sat well with her. To this day we play power games of distrust. If a relationship really is promising it is best to not jump into it. Consumating the relationship sometime this lifetime seems like a good idea but a notion of reincarnation keeps me patient.